I always said I would not require deposits as long as I had little to no cancellations. I have really tried to hold out and not do it but lately, my time has been treated as expendable and I’m tired of it. It’s not cool to get ready for a date or turn down other possibilities and then you guys cancel. Schedule your date, show up and leave happy. As simple as that sounds, it’s proven quite difficult for some. It all boils down to respect and it’s disrespectful to not honor my time. It’s making me not even want to do this anymore to be honest with you because I really don’t want to start taking deposits. I haven’t started yet but may start soon. I’ll update my rates page if/when I start. The deposit will be required for new acquaintances, not former.

Update 4/18: So I decided to start requiring deposits for all new dates. Thank you to the ones that have paid them. I appreciate you guys. 💕 

Telling me you don’t have cashapp does not mean you can forgo the deposit lol. You can purchase a visa gift card and use it to make the payment on cashapp. Setup your cashapp account using a dummy email if you are concerned about privacy. It’s a waste of time contacting me if you do not have a means to pay the deposit. I’m not budging on it. I’ve had several of you to check the box on my screening form that you understand a deposit is required yet you still are giving me excuses for why you can’t give the deposit. Don’t be that guy. I only accept cashapp at the moment so asking me if I accept Venmo, Payapl or Zelle is pointless. No, I only accept cashapp.

Telling me you’ve been scammed before is not my problem. You should have picked better. Please do not contact me if you are not comfortable paying. I understand and I much rather you see someone else. There are hundreds if not thousands of providers in Georgia not requiring a deposit. Your concern about paying doesn’t trump my requirement. It just makes us incompatible and that’s perfectly okay. 

I was too nice and understanding about people being careless with my time. Those days are over. You can thank your cohorts for me being a butthole setting strong boundaries about this.

Update 4/24/24: I’ve listened to some on you guys’ feedback about the deposits and have considered your concerns. I have decided to lower the deposit to $25 for all dates except for overnights. From what I hear, you are much more comfortable risking $25 (even though there’s none) over $50. I need something to show me you are serious about showing up as agreed. Honey if you are not willing put down $25 to see my fine ass, please keep it moving. lol

-K 💕